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Women In 'Unknown Relationship' Found Dead.Mother Slits Throat After Beating Son To Death.Two Men Dead After Domestic Disturbance.Killer Confesses Before Committing Suicide.Dead Couple Were In 'Romantic Relationship'.Parking Lot Altercation Leaves Two Dead.Double Murder/Suicide Survivor Charged With Murder.'Everyone' was shocked by this murder-suicide, and it shows that you have to listen to your instincts and keep yourself safe. They fall in to pits of despair and madness. It is a truth that people become jealous, and betray each other. Those seeing themselves in Michael and Yoli's story, please get help. Hopefully those looking for answers now have them. You can dismiss my conclusions as lunacy, or you can accept that I have some insight here and am choosing to share. Cold, calculated, without tears, without remorse, he killed himself. He was now a murderer on top of his disgrace. But where in other cultures, an 'honor killing' would not be followed by a suicide, and in fact may be followed with denial of the sister/wife/niece/daughter's existence while the authorities look the other way, Michael knew what he did was wrong. To make matters worse, his public persona would crumble with the restaurant that Yoli was leaving. He was financially secure (due to his partnership with Yoli) and had struck gold with a wonderful, charismatic, and beautiful wife.īut his honor was destroyed by her betrayal. Although he was mostly liberalized, the seed of honor stuck with him as he lived his life as a successful man. Michael grew up in a family where a woman's behavior gave or took away honor from a man. I believe this was an American 'honor killing'. While I know her side better than his side, I've seen enough of his actions during this time that I can draw a few conclusions.

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She was full of life and it's a tragedy she died the way she did. In response to the people that say I am wrong to sully Michael's name, I believe Yoli deserves better than to have her murderer honored. But I know Michael shot himself on February 23rd around 5am in the morning after he had already shot Yoli. I haven't spoken to her family, but she probably spoke with them. Sunday was the last time I knew she was alive. He threatened to kill the 'other man.' Yoli then withdrew from her support group. He found proof of the betrayal and his world fell apart. Then one day a few weeks ago, her plan was stupidly, horribly, and untimely revealed to Michael in an event that I will not go into detail here or anywhere public. In fact, at times she was making a lot of really stupid mistakes. Michael was a great chef, but she brought the recipes to their marriage.) She wasn't sure what she was going to do for money, whether she would go back to nursing, or maybe open a new restaurant. She started looking elsewhere for companionship, friendship, and external support.ĭuring this time, she found a man who cared for her. He turned hostile, and Yoli detached herself. She tried to get him to be more loving, but he wasn't interested. She said he was ignoring her and their marriage was taking on a nasty turn. I learned Yoli wasn't happy with Michael.

But I began to know of Yoli's frustrations a little over a year ago. Michael and Yoli's loving relationship had been deteriorating for a while.

If you're here, you're likely looking for answers. Austin360 isn't the most appropriate place for 'comforting people.